I went to collect a friend from a mainline station the other day and it was one of the best days; you're supposed to collect your own family, loved ones not just collect your folks. People don't understand what is important to you; employers don't, family don't. Somewhere along the line you can't listen to others- but to yourself or life will leave you long behind. There is just no comprehension; they think they have problems, hopes-what about yours? They will always think their things are more important. To the stalker; no means no.